All our
lives, for every mishap that occurs, we tend to think that it happened only to
us.. that we are the most unlucky person on earth. And overthinking it, we
often find ourselves depressed and demotivated.
What exactly are the odds that you are the only one going through a particular unwelcomed situation? Zero, I guess. Situations like a bad break up or a failure getting a dream job or something like suffering from a disease or encountering a bad accident. With around 7 billion people on this earth, how could it really be possible that you are the only one going through it?
I mean that’s something used for describing rarity of diseases, like, “one in a crore or a million”, not for something as failures or disappointments or regrets!
What I’m implying here, is not that the pain associated with a situation decreases simply because there are hundreds of people going through the same thing. But doing something about it and being happy about this gift of life surely increases your faith in youself and life, many folds. And moreover, what you are tend to think and feel like, isn’t going to lessen the pain either! It’s natural to feel that way but we have natural disasters as well. We don’t let a flood or tsunami take control and destroy this world. We fight it. We minimize it’s effects as much as we can. So how difficult would it be to overcome things like failures or disappointments! How about we no longer let mishappenings take hold of us and we keep moving forwards with our head held high and never-dying-out smile on our face! And instead of sitting back and being upset, why not work things out and just literally live this one and only life that we got! :)
What exactly are the odds that you are the only one going through a particular unwelcomed situation? Zero, I guess. Situations like a bad break up or a failure getting a dream job or something like suffering from a disease or encountering a bad accident. With around 7 billion people on this earth, how could it really be possible that you are the only one going through it?
I mean that’s something used for describing rarity of diseases, like, “one in a crore or a million”, not for something as failures or disappointments or regrets!
What I’m implying here, is not that the pain associated with a situation decreases simply because there are hundreds of people going through the same thing. But doing something about it and being happy about this gift of life surely increases your faith in youself and life, many folds. And moreover, what you are tend to think and feel like, isn’t going to lessen the pain either! It’s natural to feel that way but we have natural disasters as well. We don’t let a flood or tsunami take control and destroy this world. We fight it. We minimize it’s effects as much as we can. So how difficult would it be to overcome things like failures or disappointments! How about we no longer let mishappenings take hold of us and we keep moving forwards with our head held high and never-dying-out smile on our face! And instead of sitting back and being upset, why not work things out and just literally live this one and only life that we got! :)
