HOME

Whoever said “There’s no place like home” probably had no idea just how accurate he was!
All of us, at one point or the other in our teenage had gone on and on about going to college and living it up with friends in hostels and what not.
It’s only after going away from home, that we realized how badly we miss it and that now, we would give anything to just go back to home and never have to leave it again!
Needless to mention, Maa Ke Hath Ka Khana, is something which just has to cross our minds to make us cry real bad! Suddenly, all the tantrums your mom would throw at you, don’t matter anymore. Instead, they seem so worthwhile in life and you kind of love it even! Because after all is said and done, mom is someone who sees right through the dustiest corners of your mixed-up soul and sorts your life like nobody else! And obviously, home is where your mom is!
No matter what all lessons you learn being away from home and how independent & strong you become and figure out what life is all about, there are times when all of it doesn’t seem to be of as much worth as the price you pay for it.
Any place other than home is somehow, just hostile.
It’s only when you have no one around to serve you food at your table or hand you medicines when you’re sick, that health and food gets the deserved place on your priority list. So yeah, your priorities do get shuffled up to the right places and you get all organized and prepared for the challenges ahead.
Merely being at home is a pleasure!
There is no place you would want to go to as badly as you would want to come to home from. So, probably the only nice thing about being away from home is the feeling of excitement when returning to it.

TIME- Not Exactly A Healer

It’s funny how a year can change so much.

Last year you may be unstable with something and now, you’re just managing to get along with just everything..

May be time is not a healer. May be it’s a changer.
It changes your opinions about things over the time.

May be, it’s “not-gonna-wait-for-you” trait just gets you to go with the flow.
It takes your mind off of the thing that is bothering you and gets you busy doing other things with the lessons learnt from bad past experiences.

The wound is still there, somewhere, deep down and if your hard work goes a waste & getting along with your life doesn’t pay you back reasonably, it’ll be pain again! You’ll be back to the place where you were being kept from moving forward. You’ll be back to being stuck with the sorrow and the feeling of helplessness, as if you have hit one of those rock bottoms!  You’ll lose faith in hardwork and to some extent, in yourself.

If you have enough luck in your favour, things might fall in place for you & the wound would no longer matter anymore! You might just be able to come to peace with whatever happened to you and wherever it took you.

But wound will still be there..
It’s presence will always be reflected in our wishes for not having to go through it in the first place and imagining being in a different place altogether.
But I guess, that’s how life tends to work.
It’ll give bad enough days where you might actually have a death wish and it’ll also give you plenty of amazing days to make you feel most lively and silently lure you into wanting to live more!! 

MOM

Mom is our own personal God for all our life.

When whole of the world has given up on you, life seems the most possible unfair, there is just one person to fix it all for you- MOM.
I mean, it’s so amazing that she holds onto you, no matter what! She believes in you more than you could possibly ever believe in yourself! There’s this magic in her faith and love that brings out the best in you. She has made you believe in so many things about life.
Right since the day you were born, she looked after you like nobody else. She always got your back whenever something went wrong.
She knows it all, when are you ready to balance the bicycle and it’s time for her to let go of the back of it.. when are you ready to spread out your wings and fly and take the challenges head on.
She doesn’t let you realize, but she prepares you for the worst of battles you may face in life ahead. And not to mention, she will always be by your side.
In the course of this life, we meet so many people who make so many promises of always being by our side and what not, but they are nowhere around to keeping those promises. Mom, on the other side, does all those things without even letting you realize!
She is ready to go through all the hurtful things that even dare  to touch you!

We find many a people saying that they understand our situations and that how badly they wish they could do something about it..but nobody means it as literally as mom does.
“Unconditional love”  holds it’s definition true, only when it’s used for MOM’s LOVE! She loves you to the moon and back with absolutely zero expectations of anything in return!

Every tiny thing may change in your life, but one thing will be constant, right from your birth until your last day on this earth and that’s- Mom’s love for you!

Live up the only life you got!

All our lives, for every mishap that occurs, we tend to think that it happened only to us.. that we are the most unlucky person on earth. And overthinking it, we often find ourselves depressed and demotivated.
What exactly are the odds that you are the only one going through a particular unwelcomed situation?  Zero, I guess. Situations like a bad break up or a failure getting a dream job or something like suffering from a disease or encountering a bad accident. With around 7 billion people on this earth, how could it really be possible that you are the only one going through it?
I mean that’s something used for describing rarity of diseases, like, “one in a crore or a million”, not for something as failures or disappointments or regrets!
What I’m implying here, is not that the pain associated with a situation decreases simply because there are hundreds of people going through the same thing. But doing something about it and being happy about this gift of life surely increases  your faith in youself and life, many folds. And moreover, what you are tend to think and feel like, isn’t going to lessen the pain either! It’s natural to feel that way but we have natural disasters as well. We don’t let a flood or tsunami take control and destroy this world. We fight it. We minimize it’s effects as much as we can. So how difficult would it be to overcome things like failures or disappointments! How about we no longer let mishappenings take hold of us and we keep moving forwards with our head held high and never-dying-out smile on our face! And instead of sitting back and being upset, why not work things out and just literally live this one and only life that we got! :)

FRIENDS

There are friends in your life like “we are very different but we respect each others’ choices and opinions..so we are good friends”. I mean, it’s great to have people who understand and respect you, but at times you may have something to want to say but not able to speak simply because you are kind of unsure of the reaction of the person because of the differences that you two have..sometimes you need a friend you could speak your heart out to without a second thought! Someone with not so many differences..

Then there are friends for whom you are like “I am not the only mad person..I have company..I have friends who join me in all my craziness. So, the rest of the world can go to hell!”
The "so me" kind of friends..friends who join you in all your weirdness and the "psycho" things..friends who are a partner in crime in all your silly pranks..friends who would never get tired of listening to all your melodrama, like, EVER! Friends you could blabber all the movie dialogues infront of and laugh about it with them..friends who would know every little thing about you, good or bad, and would still hug you back when you hug them...it’s really great to have friends like that..friends that go like "I have all the rights to punch you right in the face but anyone who dares to speak against you, is dead meat!"
Your entire world can go upside down but you will find them standing right by your side..ALWAYS!

You would still want these amazing friends to be a part of your life when you’re older so as to when you look back at all this time, you would smile and say to yourself-“My life rocked when it comes to having friends! J ”